All About Motherhood – The Struggles, The Survival And The Acceptance Of First Time Mothers
Today, there are lots of women who are not prepared to have babies or are not prepared to be mothers yet however, once the circumstance hit them, the most common thing that usually happen to them is the feeling of not knowing what to do and the feeling of being lost. There might be tons of first time mothers or unprepared mothers who already have an idea about how their lives will change forever once they gave birth to their bundle of joy yet, the anxiousness they are feeling comes from not knowing how much of their life will be changed.
One thing about pregnancy that you have to know about is that it can be a blessing and a challenge at the same time, most especially on the part of women who are unprepared to become mothers or those who are having their first born. Men may not realize the things that we are going through as we carry our babies inside our tummy but for us, we are fully aware of it, we are aware of the pain that suddenly surges in our body, we are aware of how we grow in size and how hard it is for us to walk sometimes, to do the things we used to do and we are fully aware as well of the health related conditions we are experiencing like heart burn. Meanwhile, we can say that getting pregnant is something that can be considered as a blessing as you are carrying within you your bundle of joy, the source of your pride and happiness, the fruit of the love that you and your partner share.
Now, come the day you are going to give birth and no matter how prepared you are for this day, there will still be things that you will feel lots at like how you are going to take care of the little meatball that is about to come out from within you, how are going to serve your purpose as a mother or perhaps, you are not sure if you are fitting to be one. This kind of thing is normal as they may be suffering from what we call as postpartum depression however, this is not time for you to be weak and be lost as there is a tiny, little meatball who is depending on your, whose life is in your hands, instead, this is a time for you to be strong, to unleash the mother in you. There are so many ways on how first time mothers survive such an experience and thrive to be the best mother they can be to their kids.
Nowadays, there are mothers who are into meditation as this kind of activity teaches them how to calm their nerves, their mind and their body as well by doing some breathing exercises. You can also search about how to balance chakras for the sake of your overall wellness and the flow of energy through your body.